Adult Survivors Of Childhood Sex Abuse

Our childhood sex abuse lawyers in Miami, Florida, help adult victims transition into survivors by providing legal support that empowers the healing process.

MR. HERMAN: An adult survivor of sexual abuse often have a lot of common issues or damages relating to the abuse. You might see depression, anxieties, loss of trust to a partner or to authority, dysfunctional relationships, anger issues, sleep disturbances, addictions to drug or alcohol. These are the kind of things that we too often see with victims of sexual abuse who have never gotten help. The message to adult survivors is that it's not too late. Oftentimes I'll get a phone call from an adult who was abused as a child and they're not sure if there's anything they can do. And I try to explain to them simply [phonetic] making that phone call is a beginning; it's a beginning of a healing process. The most important thing I can do for an adult survivor is to help them heal. To do that I try to empower them; I help them go through that process and take back control in their life. There's no reason to suffer in silence. And the civil process, the civil lawsuit that we might be able to file can really help the healing. And the reason it helps the healing for an adult survivor is that, number one, it validates what happened to them; number two, they know that by participating they're exposing predators, and the institutions that protected those predators, by doing that they are protecting children in the future. They're saving kids' lives. A child they may have never met, never will meet in their life, but they know that by coming forward they are protecting a child. Something else that happens when a victim comes forward as an adult: other victims see them coming forward and will share in that empowerment. I often get phone calls from a victim who saw another victim come forward and they say, "You know what? I was suffering in silence. When I saw this person brave coming forward I decided it was my turn; it was my time to get help. So I picked up the phone and I called." And that's fantastic. And I know--my clients have told me that when they hear that another victim came forward because of them, that's empowering; that makes a difference in their lives, and that's healing. By coming forward as an adult survivor, the victim is kick-starting their healing process. They go from being a victim to a survivor.